![]() Clarifying what each of you wants out of a certain conversation. ![]() Gottman calls this the “soft start-up.” At its core is using a productive, non-judgmental, and non-accusatory tone with “I” based rather than “you” based statements that do not place blame. So, when bringing up a challenging or difficult subject with your partner, start from a space that is as loving and as open as possible. John Gottman says that the way conversations begin usually determines how the conversations end.
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